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Before You Propose
Considerations before planning your perfect marriage proposal.
Timeless Traditions
Is it important to your girlfriend that you ask her father or someone in her family for their blessing? If so, even if you believe it’s an old tradition, take the time to call her family or take them out to dinner before you pop the question. This way you avoid any hurt and surprised family members.
Her Ring
Trying on rings beforehand is always fun! Many women tend to love a certain style/setting and need to see several options before they can decide. Others want to be surprised and will drop hints or have talked at length to their family and friends. All will be happy with whatever you choose because it comes from your heart. de Silva collections make this process simple by offering custom design capabilities in house. Nothing is beyond our scope, if you can dream it, we can deliver!
If she wants the ring to be a complete surprise then do some research. Consult her best friends and listen carefully to any hints she drops. It is not a bad idea to have her friends take her ring shopping at de Silva collections for fun, have her attend one of our Ladies Night Galas to make a wish list or bring along one of her friends when you come to see us for the first time. Explain to her that when you get to talking price with us you’d like some privacy while you work out this part of the decision.
Your rings are the only thing, besides each other that you will have every day for the rest of your lives, after the wedding. It won’t be her dress or the flowers, it won’t be the banquet hall or the sandy beach from the honeymoon, the photographs will be shelved and the decorations boxed. Your rings are the one thing that you will take everywhere you go and every time you glance at them they will be your reminder of so many things. Think wisely where your budget goes during this hectic and joyous time. Comprising on the engagement ring or wedding bands should be entered upon cautiously.
Timing is Everything
Think ahead. Has she hinted at a Summer or Fall Wedding? It is always considerate to propose at least 6 months prior to the wedding. If she wants a shorter engagement then let her be the one to decide. Better safe on time than sorry.
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1. Public or Private
Who should be present at your marriage proposal? Just the two of you, her family and best friends, or perhaps a cheering crowd? REALLY think this one through.
Just because you are a sports fanatic does not mean her idea of a proposal is on the jumbotron. However, If she is a die-hard fan, paints her face, and never misses a single game then go for it!
We have discovered most women prefer a proposal to take place in a private or semi-private manner. Some women prefer to have family and friends involved. Holidays are fun and personable atmospheres to create your proposal. However, remember you will be competing with the holidays. There is always the option of an intimate setting for the two of you, followed by a surprise gathering of family and friends. New Year’s Eve is always an intimate moment, even if others are around.
2. Location
Location is key to setting the mood. This is where you can incorporate favorite memories together. This goes to show just how well you paid attention.
3. Attention to Details
Incorporating specific moments and details in your engagement proposal that she wouldn’t expect you to remember will leave her in awe. This is your chance to prove to her that you know her better than anyone else. Remember you want to make the proposal about her by incorporating her interests and what she enjoys doing most with you. DO NOT NEGLECT the little details; they are the icing on the cake.
4. Let de Silva collections help
We are excellent at keeping a secret and have participated in many surprises. We have many ideas to share with you to help make the moment perfect and can help you make arrangements for the perfect presentation, be it the way she is handed the ring to helping you choose the weekend getaway location where you’ll pop the question. We also have some special gifts to get you started on your way to the perfect wedding day.
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